Parents Take Their Own Lives After Their Little Boy Dies Of Cancer


A married couple in Romania has taken their own lives after losing their son to cancer. The couple, who have not been named, was found close to the body of their nine-year-old boy, Cristian Dimitris Arava, in their family apartment in the city of Constanta. The heartbreaking deaths reportedly happened just after Cristian passed away. It was neighbours who found the couple, who were both aged 46.

According to prosecutor Sadic Zafer, it appeared both the woman and the man killed themselves in the same way. Her body was laid next to her child’s and covered with a blanket.

The man was found in the kitchen. Shortly after their son passed away, his parents wrote a 13-page farewell letter. According to investigators, it spoke of how the parents dealt with the stress, grief and heartache, which began when their son was diagnosed with a brain tumour. In a blog post written seven years ago, Cristian’s mum wrote:

I felt like I was dying myself when I heard the diagnosis. I can’t express the pain that two parents feel when finding such terrible news about their child. He was only two years old.

Unfortunately, Cristian’s condition grew worse as time went on. Hope for the young boy started to fall away as the tumour continued to grow, and surgeons eventually said that surgery would be impossible. The blog post closed with: Our only hope that Cristian is a lucky child and the tumour will stop growing is now shattered. The thought that every moment could be fatal, it drives me crazy.

Suicide takes more lives than all forms of violence, including homicide, terrorism, armed conflict and executions, UNILAD reported on World Suicide Day last year.

According to the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention, suicide was 2015’s second-leading cause of death in the US for 15- to 24-year-olds, behind the unintentional injury, with 5,491 people in that age range alone taking their own lives. 4,359 were males, while 1,132 were females. According to the Office for National Statistics (ONS), there were 6,507 suicides registered in the UK in 2018.

Of the registered deaths, three-quarters (4,903) were men. In the UK, Scotland had the highest suicide rate, with 16.1 deaths per every 100,000 persons (784 deaths).

The ONS report also says the most common method of suicide in the UK was hanging, accounting for 59.4% of all suicides among males and 45% of all suicides among females.

This Article Originally Published at unilad